You may need to change the way you are thinking about authenticity. Executive Consultant, Sally Woods, Ed.D., explores how to implement new leadership mindsets and behaviors in a way that feels authentic to you and the people you lead.
Written by Sally Woods, Ed.D
An accomplished executive was determined to embrace newly learned leadership approaches, and eager to inspire and connect more deeply with their team. Let’s call them Taylor. Specifically, Taylor wanted to involve the team more in decision-making instead of being so directive (Taylor’s words, not mine). Yet the team was skeptical, labeling Taylor’s new efforts of asking for input as inauthentic or phony. Taylor even began to wonder, “Am I just being fake, acting in a way that’s not authentically me?” The pull toward older habitual ways of interacting with the team was about to win out.
It’s a common hurdle for leaders navigating their own growth and development. I hear stories like this quite often from executives who engage with Truist Leadership Institute to develop their leadership. I’ll tell you what I tell them: Stepping out of your comfort zone into new mindsets and skill sets does not mean sacrificing authenticity.
First, let's talk about what leadership authenticity is. It turns out that it’s rather murky. Some research on authentic leadership emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself while adapting to various job-related demands (Gardner et al., 2021). However, the concept of being true to oneself is very nuanced. One way of looking at it is that a person knows who they are and has a consistent way of being – of thinking, feeling, and acting. You might even hear people say, “That’s just how I am.” But research shows us that people’s self-perceptions are incomplete, biased, and selective (Jongman-Sereno & Leary, 2019) – in other words, inaccurate.
So, authenticity is not a one-dimensional, rigid, unchanging state; it's a dynamic quality that evolves with self-awareness, self-development, and experience. Humans are genuinely multi-faceted. A leader can choose to be different in different circumstances and with different people, all while being authentic. Is this leader being inauthentic by changing their approach? Not at all! They're demonstrating authentic growth by recognizing the value of diversity and adapting their leadership style accordingly in order to connect more effectively with others.
So, when you learn and apply new leadership skill sets and mindsets, you're enriching your authenticity rather than undermining it. But first, leaders, you need to get out of your own way.
Here are three practical tips for managing your own mindset about fearing your new leadership approaches are not “the real” you:
So, you’ve managed your own mindset, but what about when your efforts get branded by others, even subtly, as disingenuous? Handling a skeptical response from a colleague can be a bit of a curveball, but here are some tips to navigate it with grace while staying your authentic self:
In the end, leaders, remember that embracing new mindsets and skill sets is not a betrayal of your true self. It's a testament to your commitment to evolve, adapt, and become an even more authentic version of yourself. Researcher Herminia Ibarra calls this being adaptively authentic (2015). I’ll tell you another thing I tell my clients about this: Don’t get hung up on the concept of authenticity. Reframe your mindset to align yourself with your leadership purpose and how you aspire to be as a leader. You are so much more than you think you are.
References:
Chamorro-Premuzic, T. (2023, May 31). The dark side of authenticity. Forbes. https://www.forbes.com/sites/tomaspremuzic/2023/05/31/the-dark-side-of-authenticity/?sh=22c688ffca8d.
Gardner, W. L., Karam, E. P., Alvesson, M., & Einola, K. (2021). Authentic leadership theory: The case for and against. The Leadership Quarterly, 32, 101495. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.leaqua.2021.101495
Ibarra, H. (2015, January/February). The authenticity paradox. Harvard Business Review. https://hbr.org/2015/01/the-authenticity-paradox
Jongman-Sereno, K. P. & Leary, M. R. (2019). The enigma of being yourself: A critical examination of the concept of authenticity. Review of General Psychology, 23, 133–142. https://doi.org/10.1037/gpr0000157
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